You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do, and no one should force you to do anything against your will. But, if you are visiting a ‘naturist’ venue, we assume you’re going there with the intention to get naked…because if you’re not, well you should be going elsewhere. If you’re new to the lifestyle or are a first-timer, perhaps try out a ‘clothing-optional’ venue as they don’t insist on people being naked all the time. A great environment to go at your own pace.

Hell yes! Totally normal…and I guarantee you’re not the first. Most of us seasoned nudies have been there. For many ‘first-timers’ or newbies, the feelings of anxiety tend to dissipate pretty quickly when you realise that EVERYONE else around you is naked, and that there is such a diversity of body types, and that no one is paying as much attention to you as you might think! Acknowledge these emotions of anxiety, fear and whatever else you’re presented with, process them and let them go. Breathe through it. Do not judge yourself for having these feelings; be even kinder to yourself during the process. But remember, you are not your emotions and nor do you need to be defined or limited by them. So whilst it can feel a little overwhelming at the time, we definitely recommend giving it a go. This process, in itself, is invaluable. The nervousness you may be experiencing can be a great indicator as to where there is resistance. Learn to go inward and understand why there is resistance. Remember that doing things that challenge us helps us to grow and evolve.

No. In our opinion, there is no such thing as a ‘good’ body. Every body type, shape, colour, ability and age is welcome. You do not have to have a certain body type to get involved. The naturist lifestyle is a great representation of a diversity of real bodies. So whilst there is the image that the media pushes as a ‘good body’, you do not need to fit this mould to participate. We’re here to stand up against this agenda that the media pushes to capitalise on peoples’ insecurities and vulnerabilities. We’re here to celebrate the diversity of the human form.

You do not have to be confident to participate. If you struggle with body confidence, hopefully the naturist lifestyle will help to improve this by assisting you to become more comfortable in the skin you’re in and by exposing you to a variety of real bodies…of all different shapes and sizes. All you need is a little courage and the confidence will follow. The more time we spend naked, especially in a social setting, the more opportunity we give ourselves to work through whatever it is that is potentially hindering us from feeling confident. We find that being naked and being in your vulnerability helps you to more easily unmask what it is that is stopping you from feeling confident. The more layers we have on, the more digging we have to do. Baring it all cuts out a lot of the noise. Start with courage, and the confidence will follow.

This comes down to context, discernment and intention. When we refer to ‘non-sexual’ nudity, we are referring to the fact that the intention for the space and gathering is one which is not sexually-charged…meaning there is no sexual motive. It is a space that is created with the intention of allowing people the safety and security to experience and rediscover their own nudity separate from sex and away from a sexualised gaze…understanding and respecting that those around us, too, are here for the same reason and with the same intent. This, in turn, creates safety and security. It sets the tone so that we’re all on the same page.

Take as many photos of yourself and your friends as you like, but never take photos of others, unless you have their consent. If you want to get a photo of yourself enjoying your surroundings, ensure no one is in the background and/or that you have their consent. Don’t be indiscriminately swinging your camera around. Simple!

Many naturist venues and clubs are family-friendly indeed. The naturist lifestyle, in general, is family-friendly, and we most definitely are! Many of our members have brought their children up in the lifestyle. Children benefit greatly from a relaxed attitude toward nudity from an early age. If they are taught that the naked body is something ‘dirty’ or to be hidden from others, this can lead to severe body shame and poor body image down the track.

Remember, it’s ok to look around and check out your surroundings…you’re only human after all! I mean, it would probably be weirder if you just stared at the ground the entire time! But, there is also a difference between admiration or appreciation and staring. It’s completely natural to have a look, but gawking is just downright creepy!

The nudie community is a friendly one, so if you meet some fellow nudies or find yourself in conversation, respectfully conduct yourself like you would if you were clothed. Yes, you might all be naked and you might feel a little awkward at first, but other than that…nothing else about social etiquette needs to change. Keep it simple and don’t overthink it. Seriously, naturists engage with one another as if they were clothed…they just happen to not be!

This is something we get asked all the time! And it seriously doesn’t happen often at all. But, if it doesn't happen to you, conduct yourself respectfully, don’t make anyone feel uncomfortable and carry on. It really is that simple! Majority of the time, an erection will go away on its own, within a few minutes. If this happens to you and you feel a little awkward or embarrassed about it, we suggest either rolling onto your belly, covering up with a towel or taking a dip in the pool/ocean. Awkwardness avoided!

In this case, you may wish to keep a tampon or moon cup in, otherwise you may opt to keep your underwear on if you wear a pad or would just like that little bit of extra support. No one will question you and this is completely normal. Otherwise, maybe opt for that nude beach day or campsite visit another time if that’s easier.

There are no rules around it. Pubic hair is completely personal. If you like full bush, great. If you like clean-shaven, fine too. Just go with whatever you’re comfortable with. There is an absolute diversity amongst preference when it comes down to pubic hair choice. That’s the great thing about social nudity, you’re exposed to DIVERSITY…and it’s incredibly empowering.

Of course you can be! Attraction is still normal in a non-sexual nude setting. We’re human after all! Attraction is human nature…but there is a difference between attraction and objectification and sexualisation. You can be attracted to people without objectifying them. You can appreciate someone’s beauty without sexualising them. You can be attracted to others whether you’re clothed or naked…BUT! Being naked does not mean you have permission to be creepy, perverted or inappropriate. Nudity is not consent. Just because there is nudity involved does not mean it is of an exhibitionist nature, nor does it mean that people are asking for sex, nor to be sexualised…make the distinction! Just as you would (hopefully) conduct yourself in a respectful manner when approaching attraction in a clothed setting, same goes for a naked setting. Boundaries and consent are still a must. Nudity does not, and should never, disregard or compromise this.